https://www.toddsarnermft.com/home daily 1.0 2021-08-23 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f516a2d4eb22c0209eea84c/1599447748311-O9VUYC74554G63C05ZE8/Couples+Counseling+Marin.jpg Home - You CAN Make Your Marriage Work Again… Most people experience the same kind of issues in their marriage (or long-term relationship). Typical marriage counseling can often be just about managing the symptoms instead of curing the underlying problems. Attachment-based couple counseling gets to the heart of the matter. We go beyond just managing symptoms or being satisfied with “not fighting”. Our goal is to create the thriving marriage that both of you deserve…and that will benefit your children for life. https://www.toddsarnermft.com/contact daily 0.75 2020-09-07 https://www.toddsarnermft.com/about daily 0.75 2024-12-21 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f516a2d4eb22c0209eea84c/741dde6f-c084-43ad-8350-ba53540fff5e/web_SSP0761T-2.jpg About - About (Allan) Todd Sarner, MFT… I went through Grad School with the intention of only working with children in my practice. I went to counseling after the divorce of my parents and really liked it and found it beneficial, so I wanted to help kids and teens in the same way. Before and after I got my Masters Degree in Counseling Psychology in 2001 (from the California Institute of Integral Studies in San Francisco), I worked with children and teens in Group Homes and Foster Care and worked as a Parent Partner and Relief Worker with adoptive families. But things changed after I became a father myself in 2003. Although I had a lot of training and experience, I didn’t really feel I had the right “roadmap” for being a parent myself. This led to finding the work of Dr. Gordon Neufeld, a leading Clinical & Developmental Psychologist and the author of “Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers”. I became an intern to Dr. Neufeld for almost three years and then a Faculty Member of the Neufeld Institute. It was Dr. Neufeld’s philosophy, centering on a strong attachment bond between parent and child, that convinced me that I wanted to work with parents though a Parent Coaching practice that focuses on secure attachment, lessening behavior and relationship issues and helping children grow into their greatest potential. Along the way, I started hearing about how much success Couples Counselors were having by using the “attachment” approach to helping couples solve their relationship issues. I decided I could further help parents (and their kids) by expanding my practice into this area. I learned Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples with it’s originator, Dr. Sue Johnson, which is a highly effective attachment based couples counseling. Then I studied for many years with Dr. Stan Tatkin, the originator of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy. Stan’s approach is a revolutionary way to help couples understand each others’ attachment needs and how to effectively “regulate” each other when things go wrong. My license number is 47572 (California). 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